What do you say?

-What do you say to friends when they ask how you're doing?
-You tell them you are fine and that things are going to be okay even if you aren't sure.

-What do you tell your wife of 15 years when she says she is ugly and looks bad?
-You smile and tell her she is beautiful (and you know and believe it with all of your heart)

-What do you say to co-workers when they really like your "new" hairstyle?
-You go along with it and don't make them feel uncomfortable that you are wearing a wig.

-What do say to God, who you believe in?
-"I am pissed and I am angry and  I don't don't understand why this has happened to my wife. You owe us."

-What do you say to Christina's doctors at UCSF?
-I have faith in you but don't f*ck this up.

-What do you say to the many people who have reached out to Christina and myself?
-I say...May God and his mercy bless you all with everlasting peace in His kingdom.

-What do you say to people who ask "where are you going this year on vacation?"
-You tell them that we haven't made up our mind yet. The truth is we may not go on any vacations for awhile but that we will gladly give up all of them up to be healthy again, wouldn't you?

-What do you say to Christina's family who is sooo very concerned about her?
-You tell them that you are doing everything you can to make her feel better and that she is loved every minute of every day. You tell them that you appreciate their concerns and messages of love.  And that sometimes, you feel worthless. Oh yeah.. and F*CK cancer!!! That's what you say...